The Uncensored Truth

Quickly into this weekend’s study on Mark 8, I realized that its main point was actually a topic from a lunchtime conversation I had earlier that day with a few ROCKHARBOR High School Leaders.

We were wrestling with the issue those who work with students are often are faced with: do we soften the message of Jesus, with its convictions and warnings against immorality? Or do we delve into a relationship based on tolerance and wanting to be liked and then get into the heavy stuff, when it suits us better?

At lunch, it was apparent that the majority of the group felt that presenting our students the whole Gospel, including the parts they probably don’t want to hear, was most important. In fact, one leader even stated that he would tell a student, “I don’t care if you like me, or what I have to say, but what I am telling you is the truth, and that’s the most important thing to me.”

I didn’t quite buy it. I didn’t quite like the idea that I needed to present the whole message of Christ, not just the parts that were easy to digest.

And if I am being honest, I left this conversation pretty discouraged. How was I supposed to effectively do ministry with high school students, if I was always calling them out on how they lived their lives? How am I supposed to gain their respect and friendship if I was looked at as someone who would judge them and constantly point out their mistakes (because let’s face it, high school students make a lot of mistakes!)?

Then we studied Mark 8. I realized how similar to Peter I am. Internally, I had just been telling God that I was going to do ministry a different way…I was essentially telling him, “ssssshhh!”

But it became so clear just how much of a disservice I was doing my students. My intention was to present a softened and minimized message so that they would like me, and then I could present them the whole truth. This is a horribly backwards way of discipling them. I was protecting my own ego more than anything else.

This message isn’t just for me, a twenty-something leader who is more concerned with my own ego than the truth. It’s for all of us, really.

The Bible tells us that people will reject us for the Gospel. As Christians, we should be fine with [and used to] people thinking we are absolutely insane because of the things we declare as truth. Because that truth is so contradictory to the truth the world claims.

The world tells us it’s OK to do whatever we want after sitting in a church building for two hours on Sunday. Christ’s message is that it matters how you live on a daily basis. The words that come out of your mouth matter. The way that you pursue relationships matters. We don’t like that message very much.

But the incredible thing we see in Mark 8 is that we have the hope of knowing that, if we die to ourselves, die to our worldly concepts and ideas of how we should present the Gospel, we in turn can pick up the cross. We gain the partnership of the Holy Spirit, and as it says in 2 Timothy 1:7, it gives us power, love, self-discipline. We are not alone. We will never be alone.

So for the sake of my students understanding the whole truth, it’s up to me [in partnership with the Holy Spirit] to declare truth into their lives. Even, and especially when, it’s not something they want to hear.

For the sake of our family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances, and even strangers, it’s up to us to push our arrogance and pride aside and live as people who declare the entirety of Christ’s message.

Because it is truth. It sets us free. It gives us life. It overpowers sin. It saves, heals, restores, and reveals the way we were meant to live. And it’s not to be censored or watered down.

- Lauren Francis, RH Communications Team

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VBS: Stories From Around the County

Each year, we assign Site Shepherds to oversee, resource, and support a handful of VBS locations as they happen throughout the week. Here are some of the stories they are watching unfold that we can all take part in celebrating…

Tewinkle Park Site, Costa Mesa [Lauren Francis, Site Shepherd]

It’s incredible to see the growth of this site! Over 20 new kids have come, all eager to take part in the fun their friends told them about. During small group time, I got to be a part of the 4-year-old small group. The kids are awesome, and it’s fun to really see them beginning to understand the Big God Story at such a young age. However, the coolest part of today was watching Caden Proctor, a squirrly 14-year-old boy lead the group and really take time to listen to each child. Most kids his age are out doing different things with their summer vacation, but for those 20 minutes, he was all about those 4-year-olds and how they could interact with God. Watching students that I invest in on a weekly basis invest in the younger generation seriously rocks my world.

Killybrooke Elementary School Site, Costa Mesa [Lauren Francis, Site Shepherd]

There are 100 kids here! From the moment I arrived at the site, kids were climbing all over me, begging me to come look at their crafts and yelling their ‘Remember’ verses to me. This site is incredibly energetic and fast-moving…but I can tell that kids are having the time of their lives. There are also a ton of middle school/high school students serving here. It’s showing me that VBS is the perfect example of how the next generation can be empowered by the church to lead…because these students are the ones leading small groups, leading worship, playing with the kids, and much more. Their worth in our church and communities is so evident at this site! I also got the chance to see families like the Mohrs serve alongside each other. There is something so special about watching a dad and his two teenage daughters leading story time together.

Town & Country Site, Santa Ana [Site Shepherd: Rae Lynn Lott]

I checked in this morning just in time to see the kids recite the memory verse from yesterday. After that, the site host gave the kids a reminder about this year’s fundraiser, “I’ve got your back!” It’s a fundraiser to raise money for kids to buy backpacks and enough food to feed a family for a month for only $20. I showed the kids a sample backpack of what their money would be going toward. The kids oohhed and ahhed at it and seemed excited that they could be a part of changing the lives of other kids who have less than they do. Next, one of the volunteers from the Senior Center shared today’s portion of The Big God Story. The kids learned about the birth, life, death, and resurrection of Jesus. The woman who told the story knew it so well, she didn’t even have to read it from the book! All the kids were eager to draw pictures to illustrate the story. “Why did have to Jesus die?” she asked the students. “He knew it was the only way for us to be with Him!” answered the kids.

The Alberto Home Site, Yorba Linda [Site Shepherd: Rae Lynn Lott]

I headed to the Alberto home and found a house with over 30 kids. I arrived at 10:45am, just in time to hear The Big God Story for the second time today. It’s so cool that kids from all across the county are hearing the same story, learning about Jesus together and what He did for all of us. The kids were gathered on blankets in their small groups with their leaders who have now become their new best friends. As the storyteller tells the story of Jesus, a kid cries out, “this is the Easter story!”

The Dunham Home Site, Orange [Site Shepherd: Rae Lynn Lott]

My last stop of the day is at the Dunham home in Orange. I caught them at the end of their day as they were closing in games and group photos. The Dunham family was excited because they got a new kid today — a girl from the neighborhood that does not come from a Christian home. This is what VBS is about…the opportunity to share Jesus with our neighbors that don’t know Him. Some of the kids recounted today’s story of Jesus and how He came and died on the cross for our sins. They remembered the memory verse of the day, the one that explains it all: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

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VBS 2011: The Story Begins…

Yesterday morning, our family of six drove a few minutes down the road to Tewinkle Park where we helped kick off one of the many local expressions of VBS 2011 – “The Big God Story”.  Even before the neighborhood kids arrived, I was amazed at the passionate availability of our volunteer leaders – an eclectic crew that includes a substitute teacher, a security guard, and an aspiring Hollywood actress. We rallied together to welcome in close to 40 kids on Day One, most of whom were clearly not part of our, if any, church community.

Over our three hours of serving together, I watched how God used crafts, conversations, and crazy hand motions to tell His story – that He is the One who made all things, and is now making all things new.  Co-leading a small group of 4-5 years olds with my teenage son, I loved hearing these little ones celebrate the creativity of the Creator  - pointing out mountains, rivers, and, of course, purple pigs.

As this week-long adventure unfolds across the county, keep praying that many will be awakened to their place in the Big God Story, and that the future of kids, families and neighborhoods will be changed through these efforts. Also… feel free to drop by and check out a VBS site near you. We may even throw in a free makeover on “Crazy Hair Day”!

Todd

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Remember and Celebrate

This past weekend at ROCKHARBOR’s Celebration Services, we studied the well-known stories of Jesus feeding the 5,000 and then walking on water. After reading passages like Mark 6 and specifically looking at the disciples response to Jesus in these situations, it’s easy to shake our heads in disapproval of them. It’s pretty frustrating to see how many times people in extremely close proximity to the Son of God just don’t get it.

I can’t even imagine the scenario, bringing Jesus 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish, and watching Him multiply it to feed thousands of people. Watching the people eat until their hearts are content with a meal that was only meant to feed a small boy in the crowd. Collecting a dozen baskets full of leftovers…which was more than they even started with.

But the disciples hearts were hardened. They were confused. They still had their doubts.

Then, we see their response to Jesus walking on the water. In the midst of the windy sea, Jesus intends to pass by and give the disciples a glimpse of His glory. But the disciples are crippled by fear when they see Him. They think He is a ghost…and so Jesus instead gets into the boat and calms the wind.

What we learn here is significant. The disciples, in the midst of great need, see Jesus but do not know who He is. Despite their proximity to Him in that moment and in their lives overall, despite having seen Him do the miraculous time and time again, despite having seen the ways He provides for His people, they didn’t recognize Jesus. They had forgotten.

As I think about and get frustrated with the disciples’ response here, I come to the realization that I am no better then them. I can judge them all I want but that’s a pretty easy thing for me to do with my vantage point. I wasn’t living it in that moment…I am instead reading about something that I already know the outcome to.

In my own life, the reality is that I am just like them. There have been times that I have been in need of Jesus and He has showed up in some way and I haven’t recognized Him. There have been times when I have forgotten all the past examples of His goodness and faithfulness to me and I instead cry out wondering where, when, and even if God will show up in my present need.

How do I respond to a financial crisis? How do I handle the breaking of a relationship? Or unemployment? Or sickness? Do I question God in these moments and lose sight of who He is? Or do I, in view of His continually proving Himself good and faithful to me, choose to remember who He is and stay confident that He is with me in this moment and will again prove His love for me?

Over the past weekend, stories of God’s faithfulness and provision were shared across each ROCKHARBOR service and campus. We were urged to daily take moments and recall the ways that the Lord has proven Himself worthy of our complete trust. We heard stories like these…

Couples blessed with the ability to have children after years of trying.

Students who were in financial crises, being able to continue attending school and paying bills thanks to a check delivered by an anonymous friend.

People being healed from diseases that were destroying their lives.

Relationships being reconciled after years of hurt.

Depression and thoughts of suicide being cast out of hearts in an instant.

There are hundreds if not thousands more stories of God’s incredible faithfulness that can be remembered and celebrated all over our church. So let’s do that, beginning with our own lives.

In view of these stories and who Jesus is…

Can we pray boldly for an increased dependance and trust in God, even in times of hopelessness…because we understand that He will always give us exactly what we need, and fill us like he did the crowd on that day?

Can we be a group of believers that daily takes time to remember and celebrate the ways that God has blessed us time and time again…so that when uncertainty, trial, and questions come calling, we hold onto the truth and memories of God’s faithfulness and goodness?

- Lauren Francis, RH Communications Team

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Ugly Duckling

Kindergarten was my favorite grade in school and how can it not be?  We had recess, snack, craft, would learn a letter or two, eat lunch, and then the most important part…

…nap time.

But nap time was always accompanied with the second best part of the day… story time. These stories were meant to calm us down, but when I take a closer look at them I realize that these stories were loaded with meaning. For example, look at the Ugly Duckling. Today when I read that story through, a baby duck looking all around him for acceptance, looking everywhere for his identity, only to find out that when he was himself, he was the most elegant animal on the lake.

All he had to be was himself.

We remember the story, and we scoff at the way this duckling was trying to find acceptance and identity. Because we never ever struggle with this, right? We never look to our friends, jobs, bank accounts, cars, toys, 401k’s, or clothes to determine our value… do we?

There is a story in Genesis 29 about a woman desperately seeking the love of her husband. Her whole life was spent in competition with her younger sister, Rachel. She was sent to marry a man, Jacob, who didn’t want to marry her, he wanted Rachel, and now Leah finds herself in a loveless marriage competing for this man’s approval. She would do anything to feel the value and acceptance that Rachel feels, she’d even have a child.

When the LORD saw that Leah was not loved, he enabled her to conceive, but Rachel remained childless. Leah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Reuben, for she said, “It is because the LORD has seen my misery. Surely my husband will love me now.” She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Because the LORD heard that I am not loved, he gave me this one too.” So she named him Simeon. Again she conceived, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Now at last my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” So he was named Levi. [Genesis 29:31-35]

Do you see her anguish? “Maybe now my husband will love me.” or “Maybe now my husband will become attached to me because I’ve borne him 3 sons.”

Can you see her motivation?  Can we identify?

We’ve all done something in order to gain the approval, clout, applause, respect, popularity, whatever you call it, of someone else. We’ve all allowed something else to shape our identity.

But something happens in verse 35 -

She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” So she named him Judah. Then she stopped having children.

Something is different about this one. Look at her response… “This time I will praise the LORD.”

Her response. She thanked God. Her identity wasn’t found in having children any longer. Instead she found it in God, and named the child Judah, and something was special about Judah.

I wonder what would change in our lives if we looked at our identity the same way God does?

He loves us.

Not because of anything we’ve done. Not because of anything we own. Not because of anything we’ve accomplished.

He loves us. Just because.

And there is nothing we can do to change that.

Like Leah and like the duckling, when we become comfortable in our own skin, realizing the approval of God is all that we need, then we will begin to live the life God intended for us to live.

- Brad Thayer

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